Late To The Party

How come the women I seem to find myself interested in are always taken already?  I sometimes find myself being jealous of other men who seemed to have found the perfect woman....or more accurately, my perfect woman.  Its like they got there before me ya know?   Makes me wonder if perhaps I should have dragged myself out of bed earlier that day, or not had that second cup of coffee.  I mean was it that day a few years ago when I was home sick with the flu...is that when I missed out????